“Mom said, ‘Did you sign the paper that said you were going?’” Melinda remembers. “I said ‘yes,’ and she said ‘We are women of our word. You are going back!’ I’m so glad she did hold my feet to the fire. I feel like God tricked me into auditioning for Idol … and that’s okay.”
The American Idol process, week in and week out, was tough. Melinda admits that taking criticism is not easy for her. But, again advice from her mom got her through.
“She taught me this thing called ‘chew the hay, spit out the sticks,’” Melinda says. “In other words, whenever somebody says something to you, you take what’s good for you and spit out the rest.”
So, she listened to the criticism and re-evaluated herself. She would ask herself if there was something she could change. If not, she would let it roll off her back.
“And then I had my baby girl Jordan, (Idol winner Jordan Sparks), with me. She and I prayed a lot together.”
Melinda had her close friends, her “Gayles” as she calls them (nicknamed after Oprah Winfrey’s best friend Gayle King). So, she says it was a good support system. Melinda says she was constantly chided for having a shocked look on her face after performances. But she says sometimes she WAS genuinely shocked.
Getting ready to perform a song was a little scary.
“I wondered, ‘Is this really going to work,’ then I would sing, have a blast doing it and when I was done it was like – wait a minute I really enjoyed that! People were applauding and Simon was saying nice things. My mouth was wide open.”
Of the infamous Simon Cowell, the hard-to-please Idol judge, Melinda says, “I love him. He was my little teddy bear. My favorite. When there was criticism, it was something to make me stronger.”
Melinda admits that moving from a background singer to being out front was not the easiest of moves for her. That was the worst part of Idol. There she was, in front of all those people bearing her soul. For her, she says, it was like standing in front of all those people naked.
“I really didn’t know what ME sounded like,” Melinda says. “I hadn’t honed in on that yet. I was getting up on that stage and being something other than a background singer. I was learning about my voice, myself. I was learning who I was with the music and coming out on the other side a stronger person.”
Idol helped Melinda Doolittle grow in other ways. Through Idol Gives Back, Melinda got to go to Africa for the first time. She says it was a life changing moment.
“It opened my eyes to the fact that it just wasn’t about getting up in front of people and singing. It was about taking that platform and making a difference.”
After Idol was over, Melinda got to travel to Africa again with First Lady Laura Bush.
“We were not just going,” she says, “We were going there to save lives and hand out bed nets that were helping out with a charitable group called “Malaria No More” (
www.MalariaNOMORE.org).
It is now something Melinda has really gotten behind.
“I spent my first day there with Mrs. Bush and Zambia’s First Lady Mrs. Mwanawasa.” Melinda says, “It was amazing and scary to see how devastated that country is with malaria, but to see the joy that comes out of people’s faces. I’ve never seen that much joy in my life. Especially in the midst of all that’s going on there. So, it was a great experience.”
Her fan club, called “Melinda’s Backups,” have joined the singer in her efforts to aid Africa. On Melinda’s birthday and at Christmas, they donate bed nets, which is the primary goal of Malaria No More.
As a result of her Africa experience, Melinda was invited to perform at the White House at a dinner honoring Mrs. Bush by America’s Youth Alliance. At the dinner she was seated next to President Bush. She’s still nervous talking about that night.
Catching her breath she says, “I was too nervous to eat. I’m thinking, 'I’m sitting next to the President!' But he was awesome. One of the most amazing and interesting people I’ve ever met. I sat there and wanted to cry because I’m thinking is this really my life now? Are these the opportunities I get? Is this God’s new plan for me? I can just name life changing moment after life changing moment this year.”
Melinda just completed a Christmas tour with Michael W. Smith and The Katinas. She says she had a great time traveling with all the guys. One number even had Smitty and the Katinas being her backup.
“Who would have thought in a year’s time they would be my ‘Pips,’” Melinda says with a smile.
Melinda says she loves being rooted in middle Tennessee and like the small town atmosphere and sweet tea (“It’s the best thing in the world”). This year, Melinda will be working on recording an album. She says it will probably be a mainstream project.
“I love to sing and I dream that I can continue to do it,” she says. “I hope the words that I sing will hit people in a great place – show them hope, show them joy. I pray I get to do that for as long as I can imagine. And, through the process, save some lives through Malaria No More.”